The Goldilocks Solution: The Vital Role of Clarity in Divorce Mediation In the heart of every storm, there lies a path to clarity. As a divorce mediator, I have witnessed numerous couples navigate through the tempest of emotions to find the “just...
Becoming the CEO of Your Divorce Is How You Can Survive It There are many tips on how to survive divorce, but have you ever heard of the motivational triad? It’s a concept from psychology. It is a powerful survival mechanism in humans that explains how our brains are...
I’m a Long Island girl and a product of a loving, long term marriage (52 years!). If you had asked me at 13 where I saw myself in 35 years, never would I have guessed this reality. Seventeen years after I said “I do,” I’m divorced, with 3 amazing kids (twin boys 9,...
During a divorce, one of the most challenging areas to tackle is division of the family’s assets and liabilities. Between brokerage accounts, retirement accounts, pensions and the family marital residence, splitting assets during divorce can get pretty contentious as...
When I’m with a group of people, I often hear from them about a “friend” in trouble in their marriage. Nearly universally, they tell me why they would be better off getting a divorce. When I ask why, they said things like, “They are a jerk,” “They cheat,” “They don’t...
“She isn’t his mom. She will never take my place as his mom.” It is a mantra I have repeated to myself in moments when my son gravitates towards his father’s girlfriend, or when I have felt like an outsider as he shares some funny story or adventure they had together....
Recent Comments