Divorcing a narcissist with a system that does not understand the nuances of narcissistic abuse, is going to be one of the toughest battles you will ever face. It is therefore incredibly important to find a lawyer who understands narcissistic abuse and has empathy for...
A few weeks ago, I was talking with Bill Eddy about mediating high-conflict divorce cases. Whether we are focusing on solely financial issues or also child custody mediation, there are some important management tools to remember. During our conversation, we...
I know from firsthand experience that it’s easy to have our days become taken over by the expectations and pressures of others — and parenting can be tricky in and of itself whether it’s the first time, fifth time or whatever life throws us. Co-parenting...
As a divorce mediator and lawyer for more than 25 years, people often ask me why most people divorce. While infidelity may be fodder for great movies, there are loads of other reasons that marriages fail. Whether you find yourself in litigation or going through...
Living with a high conflict partner can be a roller coaster of blame, all-or-nothing thinking, overwhelming emotions, and sometimes violence. If you are planning to separate or get divorced, you might be thinking about how to navigate the family court system with a...
Approximately 2 years ago I found myself divorced, needing to go back to work, with 75% responsibility for my children, and trying to co-parent with someone who hadn’t had a conversation with me in well over a year. PLUS, what I felt was an unfair child support...
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